Wednesday, November 6, 2024

Disappointment

 I really thought that our country was smarter.  I was born in 1959 and after all these years of women being treated as second class citizens, I thought we were ready for change.

My experiences include:

  • Being told by my high school guidance counselor that I was good in math and science but those were careers for men.  I was also a good writer, so I should go to college for that.
  • Being told at 25 by my grandmother that I was getting old and I should be married.  She said she only buys Christmas gifts for grandchildren that are unmarried and I am the oldest grandchild she "has to buy for".
  • Working as a computer repair technician, having people come into the office and asking if there is any men who can help.  I had to prove I knew what I was doing over and over again.
I started a website called Sunbonnetsue.com in 1999 to teach myself HTML (how early webpages were coded).  I was asked to teach it , so I wanted to have a lot of experience with it.   I shared Sunbonnet Sue quilts on the website and when I saw this quilt on eBay, I had to buy it:


It said "Elect a Lady in 1980". It was made when Geraldine Ferraro was running as vice president.  I thought that we would have women president in my lifetime.

I'm so tired of women being pushed aside by men.  When will this end?